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The AFA Blog has Changed its Address!

August 6, 2009 - Thursday
Posted by Lisa

For the same great daily entries with a new and improved look, visit:
http://theafa.typepad.com

Archived blog will stay put at this address. Please feel free to revisit your favorites.

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We will continue to bring you information on all things family, everyday.

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A Typical Monday at the Computer, or, I Couldn’t Get Away From Articles About Being Fat Today

August 4, 2009 - Tuesday
Posted by Corey

I am currently in the process of editing the articles that will appear in The AFA’s 2010 edition of the National Fertility and Adoption Directory.  This year’s book will have around 23 articles.  I received three of them for editing today, and it struck me that all three (written by Mike Berkley, L.AC; Daniel Shapiro, M.D.; and Stacey Roberts, PT, MH. Ph.C) discussed obesity and its detrimental effects on fertility and overall health.

Then, being a creature of habit, I checked out The AFA’s homepage newsfeed, which changes several times a day and picks up relevant news stories from around the world, and two stories right on our homepage were about?  You guessed it.  Being overweight.  One article focused on that newest catch phrase, brown fat, and the other one focused on body image and weight.

Recently I learned that Forever 21, my daughter’s (and mine) favorite clothing store, is creating a line of cool clothes for larger teenage girls called Faith 21.  And Lane Bryant is launching a teenage girl’s line this September as well.  You can certainly say that this is great news, and it is.  Everyone deserves to wear beautiful clothing.  But obviously, overweight teenagers represent a fairly large market and big profits, and that is the motivator here.  And no. This was not a play on words.

Personally?  I’ve been fat, and I’ve been thin.  Once upon a time, I even had the photos to prove it.  And I need to be honest.  At least for me?  Thin is better.  No, I didn’t say mega skinny.  I said thin.  Healthy thinness is better.  For overall health, certainly.  But also, for fertility. 

And here’s the at least for me part.  I feel prettier now than I did when I was fat.  Was that my reason for losing 78 lbs.?  No.  My motivator was a routine trip to the doctor, and finding out that my blood pressure was at potentially catastrophic numbers.  With two babies at home relying on me to, you know.  Live. 

I was sure that diabetes was in my near future if I didn’t straighten up and fly right, so I did.  I chose to be healthy and live. 

Fourteen years later, I have a teenage daughter who is thin and I am grateful, for a number of reasons, none of which have to do with her looks.  She would be beautiful in my eyes no matter what she weighed.  But when Caitlin contracted swine flu this past spring, I would have had to worry much more about it’s effect on her health if she had been 25 lbs. heavier.  If my girl was a typically overweight American teen, I would be concerned about her potential for diabetes, heart disease, and a whole litany of weight related health issues.

And of course, given my own pcos, I would be concerned about her future fertility.

We all know that everyone has the right to feel, and to be, beautiful.  I think that healthy weight exists on a spectrum and that we in this culture are not very tolerant of the spectrum.  Five pounds up or down and you’re Too Fat!!!  Or, Too Thin!!!  But.  If you go too far in either direction, I truly think you look unattractive (yes, I went there) for a reason.  And the reason is that being too skinny, or too fat, is simply not healthy.  And we as human beings find these ends of the spectrum unattractive as a way of preserving our species.  Being grossly overweight, or grossly underweight, will inhibit fertility potential as well as overall health. 

I know it’s hard.  There is no magic bullet for weight loss.  But if you are currently ttc, and feel in your heart that you are overweight, or underweight, talk to your doctor, make changes that make sense for you, and if overweight is the issue, exercise!  Magic bullet for weight loss?  There isn’t any.  Cliches aside, if I can do it, you can too.

For more information on weight and fertility check out these, and many other stories:
http://www.integramed.com/inmdweb/content/cons/conceptions/optimalweight.jsp
http://www.consumerreports.org/health/conditions-and-treatments/fertility-problems/what-works/fertility-treatments-and-your-weight.htm
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-1203036/Calorie-burning-healthy-fat-latest-weapon-battle-obesity.html?ITO=1490
http://www.di-ve.com/Default.aspx?ID=72&Action=1&NewsId=62850

Corey Whelan
Program Director
The American Fertility Association
http://www.theafa.org

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Fertility • Infertility • Reproductive Health

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Infertility: where religion and science meet

August 3, 2009 - Monday
Posted by Ken

In a recent article titled Reconciling Religion and Infertility, the author thoughtfully outlines the beliefs and teachings of Judaism, Islam, and Christianity and how those beliefs affect each tradition’s teachings about infertility treatment. The article was written from the perspective of helping the 10 percent of the 10 million people worldwide that will be diagnosed with cancer this year and who may require fertility treatment. The term “oncofertility” has been coined for the field that assists patients in looking at fertility preservation options.

From my perspective, there are three key points raised in the article. First, those diagnosed with cancer have not been routinely offered fertility preservation options. Second, there is a real desire for dialogue with religious leaders on this issue, so that health care teams can better deal with people of faith who are faced with cancer and who desire to preserve their fertility. And third, that there are great variations between and within faith traditions on how to approach this issue, and those approaches may change or be nuanced over time as our understanding of technology continues to advance.

But the broader issue that the article points to is the importance of those undergoing or contemplating treatment to have a conversation about it. Have the conversation with your religious leaders. Have it with trusted family and friends. Share what you are going through so that assisted reproductive technology becomes human for others. Finally, share what you are going through so that the conversation becomes normalized in the population at large.

We often talk about the gains The AFA has made in terms of web traffic and media coverage. It’s not because I want The AFA or any member of the staff or board to have attention drawn to them. It’s because I want the conversation about this issue to become part of the mainstream so that the fear and shame, which still surrounds it, can be diminished.

So join the conversation. Health care professionals, patients, those faced with cancer, patient advocates, religious leaders, children born as a result of IVF – everyone’s voices are needed – and so are everyone’s ears; because talking is only half of it.

Ken Mosesian

 

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Cancer & Fertility • Fertility • Fertility Preservation • Infertility • IVF • Reproductive Technologies

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Pee in a Cup

July 31, 2009 - Friday
Posted by admin

That’s all it takes, suggests a recent study on bmj.com, to determine if you have an STD which could stand in the way of you successfully conceiving a child.  Chlamydia is the most common STD in the United States and it can lead to serious long term health complications in women, including infertility.  Guys, you’re not far behind.  Recent studies show it may also cause infertility in men.  When I say recent, I mean yesterday. 

And, as part of The AFA’s male reproductive health program, now underway with several other “A-listers” like the Society for the Study of Male Reproduction (SSMR) - an official branch of the American Urological Association, Men’s Health Network, and the CDC, an extensive amount of research is currently being launched to determine the best ways to educate younger men and the most effective ways to approach them with that education. We have a lot of work to do, without a doubt, but all of us are really excited about making an impact in this area. In addition to STD prevention, we’re going to be looking at the effects of environmental toxins, steroid and other drug use and testicular self-exams as a way to get guys more “in touch” with their own reproductive health.

Five minutes with your doctor and a urine sample are all it takes to “flush out” (sorry, it’s Friday and I’ve been caffeine-free for two weeks) the possibility of carrying an undiagnosed STD.  If you want some incentive to do so, while getting a European vacation out of the deal, head to the UK where you’ll get an iPod just to get tested for STDs. Seriously. This is a real program and you may read about it here. 

Read Article about STD Testing:

Simple Urine Test Could Help Cut Chlamydia in Men

Brian Armentrout
Communications Director
The American Fertility Association

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Family Building • Fertility • Fertility Preservation • Infertility • Male Factor • Reproductive Health • Sexual Health

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Happy Birthday Jackie O

July 30, 2009 - Thursday
Posted by Corey

This month would have marked the 80th birthday of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis.  I have always been fascinated with Jackie O – I’ve had two Jackie sightings in my life.  One, on a beach in Negril (1975, wearing a tie dyed tee shirt over a bathing suit) and once on Madison Avenue (1977, wearing her signature large sunglasses and head scarf). 

Jackie really was American royalty.  Her outward persona when President Kennedy was assassinated has been discussed unendingly since 1963.  Less discussed has been her miscarriage in 1955, and her still birth, in 1956.

Jackie has always fascinated me.  Like all celebrities today, we know so many things about her that are simply none of our business to know.  But having had a miscarriage myself, this has always been the piece of Jackie history that I have held onto when I needed to call up a bit of courage.

I remember years ago, speaking to Grandma Rita (Whelan) when she was in her early seventies.  She started to tell me about her miscarriage, some fifty years earlier but couldn’t get through it because she choked up.  It’s a horribly painful experience for a woman to bear, whether it is tied to a larger story of personal infertility or not.  My own miscarried baby would have been a boy.

Those who miscarry are part of a large group, a universal family of women who know, and understand.  I came across this list, by no means complete, of our more famous sisters who count this as part of their life experience:

http://in-their-honor.blogspot.com/

If you need to know the company you are in, please visit it, and know that you are not alone.

Happy birthday Jackie O.  What a life you lived.  Thank you.

Corey Whelan
Program Director
The American Fertility Association

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Infertility • Miscarriage • Pregnancy Loss

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